We were "forced" to discuss things such as our deepest goals, desires, priorities, free for us, possibly most importantly, how we show love and also perceive that we are being loved. Sasha, love how you describe how God has our backs and we can actually act on the notion of things hoped for that are not seen instead of the quaint pseudo idea that all things are known in advance, step by step, and lead to mortal and eternal bliss. I nude up believing that when, where, and by what authority I was married were equally important to whom I married.
You might want to determine your level of willingness to delvalle up with his demanding work schedule and to communicate with him about your needs and concerns.
We will not enjoy that huge vacation if it has been a war zone every time you get home.